An Article Address by Azim Premji in the ‘Shaping Young Minds Program’
(SYMP) organized by AIMA in collaboration with the Bombay Management
Association (BMA) in Mumbai on ‘My Lessons in Life’.
I am very happy to be here with you. It is always wonderful to be with
young people. As my hair turned from black, to salt and pepper and
finally salt without the pepper, I have begun to realize the importance of youth.
At the same time, I have begun to truly appreciate some of the lessons I
have learnt along the way. I hope you will find them useful when you
plan your own career and life.
The first thing I have learnt is that we must always begin with our
strengths. There is an imaginary story of a rabbit. The rabbit was
enrolled in a rabbit school. Like all rabbits, it could hop very well
but could not swim. At the end of the year, the rabbit got high marks in
hopping but failed in swimming. The parents were concerned. They said,
‘Forget about hopping. You are, anyway good at it. Concentrate on
swimming.’ They sent the rabbit for tuition in swimming. And guess what
happened? The rabbit forgot how to hop! As for swimming, have you ever
seen a rabbit swim?
While it is important for us to know what we are not good at, we must
also cherish what is good in us. That is because it is only our
strengths that can give us the energy to correct our weaknesses.
The second lesson I have learnt is that a rupee earned is of far more
value than five found.. My friend was sharing with me, the story of his
eight year-old niece. She would always complain about the breakfast.
The cook tried everything possible, but the child remained unhappy.
Finally, my friend took the child to a supermarket and brought one of
those ready-to-cook cereal packets. The child had to cut the packet and
pour water in the dish. The child found the food delicious. The
difference was that she had cooked it! In my own life,
I have found that nothing gives as much satisfaction as earning our
own rewards. In fact, what is gifted or inherited follows the old rule
of ‘come easy, go easy’. I guess we only know the value of what we have,
if we have struggled to earn it.
The third lesson I have learnt is, in Cricket, no one bats a hundred
every time. Life has many challenges. You win some and lose some. You
must enjoy winning. But do not let it go to the head. The moment it
does, you are already on your way to failure. And if you do encounter
failure along the way, treat it as an equally natural phenomenon. Don’t
beat yourself for it or any one else for that matter! Accept it, look at
your own share in the problem, learn from it and move on. The important
thing is, when you lose, do not ‘lose the lesson’.
The fourth lesson I have learnt, is the importance of humility.
Sometimes, when you get so much in life, you really start wondering,
whether you deserve all of it. We have so much to be grateful or. Our
parents, our teachers and our seniors, have done so much for us, that we
can never repay them. Many people focus on the shortcomings, because
obviously, no one can be perfect. But it is important to first
acknowledge, what we have received. Nothing in life is permanent, but
when a relationship ends, rather than becoming bitter, we must learn to
savor the memory, of the good things, while they lasted.
The fifth lesson I learnt is, that we must always strive for Excellence.
One way of achieving excellence, is by looking at those better than
ourselves. Keep learning what they do differently. But excellence cannot
be imposed from the outside. We must also feel the need from within. It
must involve not only our mind, but also our heart and soul. Excellence
is not an act, but a habit. I remember the inspiring lines of a poem,
which says that your reach must always exceed your grasp. That is heaven
on earth. Ultimately, your only competition is yourself.
The sixth lesson I have learnt is, never give up in the face of
adversity. It comes on you, suddenly without warning. Always keep in
mind, that it is only the test of fire, that makes fine steel. A friend
of mine shared this incident with me. His ten-year old daughter was
struggling away at a jigsaw puzzle. She kept at it for hours but could
not succeed. Finally, it went beyond her bedtime. My friend told her,
“Look, why don’t you just give up? I don’t think you will complete it
tonight. Look at it another day.” The daughter looked with a strange
look in her eyes, “But, dad, why should I give up? All the pieces are
there! I have just got to put them together!” If we persevere long
enough, we can put any problem into its perspective.
The seventh lesson I have learnt is, that while you must be open to
change, do not compromise on your values. Mahatma Gandhiji often said,”
You must open the windows of your mind, but you must not be swept off
your feet by the breeze.” Values like honesty, integrity, consideration
and humility have survived for generations. At the end of the day, it is
values that define a person more than the achievements. Do not be
tempted by short cuts. The short cut can make you lose your way and end
up becoming the longest way to the destination.
And the final lesson I learnt is, that we must have faith in our own
ideas even if everyone tells us that we are wrong. There was a
newspaper vendor who had a rude customer. Every morning, the Customer
would walk by, refuse to return the greeting, grab the paper off the
shelf and throw the money at the vendor. The vendor would pick up the
money, smile politely and say, ‘Thank you, Sir.’ One day, the vendor’s
assistant asked him, “Why are you always so polite with him when he is
so rude to you? Why don’t you throw the newspaper at him when he comes
back tomorrow?” The vendor smiled and replied, “He can’t help being
rude and I can’t help being polite. Why should I let his rude behavior
dictate my politeness? I hope you achieve success in whatever way you
define it and what gives you the maximum happiness in life. “Remember,
those who win are those who believe they can.” Prayer is not a spare
wheel that you pull out when YOU ARE IN TROUBLE, It is a steering wheel
that keeps you on the right path throughout your life.